Thursday, October 25, 2012
Who I was..
1 Cor. 1:26-31
'Look at who you were when you were called into this life? (Revised Message)
This hit me this morning. I remembered back to my pitiful self and thought for a moment of who I was, and who I wanted to be. I was a broken, mad, mess of a person.
Now I asked Jesus to be in my life when I was 5, but I never really said 'yes' to Him till much later. What I mean when I say that is yes, I was a Christian, Jesus was a big part of my life and I had my 'fire insurance', but I never really fully surrendered, or gave Him my whole life until a short time ago. Truth is, I didn't know how and I didn't want to. I was afraid He would take all the fun and control out of it. My heart yearned for a closer walk with Him, but I wasn't willing to let things go. I liked having a little control to myself, thinking I had the right as a human being to carry my offenses and other's like a big, wet, sticky, wool blanket, because deep down, it felt good. I had every right to be angry if someone did me wrong, and I liked the way it felt.
After some time, I wasn't feeling good, I was just tired. Tired of having to control situations I had no business controlling, tired of feeling angry even though on the outside I was as happy as could be. My joy wasn't easy. It was work. Deep down in my heart, I knew there had to be a better way to this 'life'. I wanted real freedom and joy. The cool thing is, God knew that all along. He was just waiting for me to say 'yes'.
"are you done?" He smiles.
'yes'. I say.
"ok". Still smiling.
It was only about 3 years ago that I fully gave up and said 'yes'. I can assure you it has not been an easy road, but it has been so fulfilling in more ways than I can say or imagine. He has known all along my deepest hearts desires, my wanting for more, and yet He never rushed me. He patiently waited for me to get 'over' myself. I love that about Him, it gives His words 'I stand at the door and knock' a little different meaning.
Where are you today with your walk with your Father? He sees who we were truly made to be. No matter what you look like today, He knows who He created you to be. Ask Him who that person is. When your ready, He is waiting with a smile on His face and open arms. Get ready for the ride of your life.
Friday, September 7, 2012
'Unshakable'
I was dropping my oldest off at school this morning. I believe he is a 'words' kid, so I try to encourage him as mush as possible before he begins his day, being a light at his school.
Me: Have a good day! Your awesome! Have fun! I love you!
He gets out of the car, goes to close the door, looks at me and says, 'Anything else?'
I smiled and said, 'Your amazing'!
That seemed to be sufficient, he ran off grinning from ear to ear, waving at me as far as he could see me.
It hit me then.
'All you have to do is ask.' That quiet voice spoke to my spirit.
How often does our Father love to lavish us with encouragement and praise? How often do we need to hear it?
How often do we actually ask?
I was humbled by Cy's response to me this morning. There was no embarrassment or hesitation, he needed more, so he asked, and I was glad to deliver. I love my son more than I can say. So how much more does our Father love us, and how much more does he absolutely love and delight in building us up and encouraging us?
I think one of the biggest lies of the enemy is to get in our ears and repeat to us over and over that we should feel guilty. Guilty for not doing enough. Guilty for doing too much. So guilty that we could never imagine that our Father actually delights in our every move, that He is just waiting to lavish us with His praises of us. After all, He alone created us. And guess what? He knew we would screw up, a lot. Its not our job to beat ourselves up. It is our responsibility to ask forgiveness, get up, and move on. And it is totally ok to ask our Father for help as well as words and actions to lift us back up and keep moving forward.
I needed this reminder today. I am understanding more and more why He calls us to be like a 'little child'. Messy, real, and genuine.
Me: Have a good day! Your awesome! Have fun! I love you!
He gets out of the car, goes to close the door, looks at me and says, 'Anything else?'
I smiled and said, 'Your amazing'!
That seemed to be sufficient, he ran off grinning from ear to ear, waving at me as far as he could see me.
It hit me then.
'All you have to do is ask.' That quiet voice spoke to my spirit.
How often does our Father love to lavish us with encouragement and praise? How often do we need to hear it?
How often do we actually ask?
I was humbled by Cy's response to me this morning. There was no embarrassment or hesitation, he needed more, so he asked, and I was glad to deliver. I love my son more than I can say. So how much more does our Father love us, and how much more does he absolutely love and delight in building us up and encouraging us?
I think one of the biggest lies of the enemy is to get in our ears and repeat to us over and over that we should feel guilty. Guilty for not doing enough. Guilty for doing too much. So guilty that we could never imagine that our Father actually delights in our every move, that He is just waiting to lavish us with His praises of us. After all, He alone created us. And guess what? He knew we would screw up, a lot. Its not our job to beat ourselves up. It is our responsibility to ask forgiveness, get up, and move on. And it is totally ok to ask our Father for help as well as words and actions to lift us back up and keep moving forward.
I needed this reminder today. I am understanding more and more why He calls us to be like a 'little child'. Messy, real, and genuine.
Monday, April 30, 2012
Life
Ok. I want to write through some thoughts I've been having, and also invite you into my life a little more.
One of my dearest friends called me this morning. We had hung out previously the night before for dinner, which is a common thing for us. We have known each other about 2 1/2 years and our friendship has been life-giving in every way.
Seeing her call me this early in the morning can either mean 1 of 3 things usually. She had a dream or thought she wanted to share or pray through, 2, something to share to make me laugh so hard I would pee my pants, or 3, something was 'amiss'. Needless to say, I answered quickly.
What she shared with me I have to admit, caught me completely off guard.
I mentioned we had hung out the night before. During some 'banter', teasing, and laughing, I had unknowingly spoke something that did not settle. I had truly meant for it to be a joke, but instead, my words had caused her hurt. She, being the woman she is, had tried to forget and pray through it through out the night. She knows me. She knows I don't intentionally hurt people and she knows our relationship is built with life and our Father in the middle. So for her to feel unsettled that long caused her to dial me this morning and tearfully share her heart with me.
My words had hurt. She wanted to be sure there wasn't a 'root' as we call them. You know, when someone says they are joking, but actually is a sneaky way of telling the truth about how you really feel to someone you don't have the guts to say to their face.
I have to be honest. At first, I was a little upset. Why would she ever think I would ever say something to hurt her? Couldn't she tell it was a joke? Then the Holy Spirit kicked me in the butt and I stopped thinking and started listening. As soon as I put my own dumb self aside, I could 'hear' her. My words were stupid. I shouldn't have said them. I got caught up in the moment and wanted to be funny. In the process, I had fired little arrows.
I'm sharing this because this is a part of life and its something we all do so easily.
I also want to share this as how to 'walk' with friends and the correct way to walk in life with conflict. She put herself on the line and called me the second she woke this morning so it would not linger. She didn't call another friend to 'talk' through it and smear my character and name through the mud. She talked it through with her Father first. Then she called me right away, before the day got away and bitterness started to settle in with her. This is one of things I admire most about her and our friendship. We go to the source first. I never have to worry about gossip or slander. I know what is spoken between us always stays with us.
This is how friendship should be with each other. If you have a problem or thought of a problem, even a doubt, talk to your Father first. He will tell you if its you or something you need to discuss with that person. Please stop 'asking prayer' with a friend as a way to gossip in Christianese. That does not spark growth for anyone. It is a disease that spreads quickly and effectively like wild fire in the Christian Community, especially amongst women.
This leads me to ask this question.
Why do we as women do this to each other? As if life isn't hard enough with kids, husbands, work, family, ect. We need community. Safe community. We need life. We need safety with each other. Stop hopping around between friends for the one to give you the advice you 'want to hear' and start seeking wise and safe council.
Prov.11:14 (msg) 'Without good direction, people lose their way; the more wise counsel you follow, the better your chances.' 12. 'Mean-spirited slander is heartless; quiet discretion accompanies good sense.'
Sadly, I myself have been involved far too many times with people that do not spark life and growth and I am far from being perfect on this matter. Gossip in any form is fun for a while, and it can make you feel better about yourself and that your life is somehow better than that poor unfortunate soul. Trust me when I say this. Its not worth it.
Life is too short. Stay rooted in your Father and speak life to one another. We are all fighting hard battles everyday. We need all the help we can get. We are on the same team. Lets act like it and start focusing on the things the devil doesn't want us to see.
Sounds way more fun to me.
I apologized right away and asked forgiveness for my dumb words. She was quick to forgive and always is because we know each other and where our identity lies. Now we move on. We don't linger in 'the yucky place'.
We accept forgiveness, we learn from our mistakes, and we enjoy the rest of our day.
One of my dearest friends called me this morning. We had hung out previously the night before for dinner, which is a common thing for us. We have known each other about 2 1/2 years and our friendship has been life-giving in every way.
Seeing her call me this early in the morning can either mean 1 of 3 things usually. She had a dream or thought she wanted to share or pray through, 2, something to share to make me laugh so hard I would pee my pants, or 3, something was 'amiss'. Needless to say, I answered quickly.
What she shared with me I have to admit, caught me completely off guard.
I mentioned we had hung out the night before. During some 'banter', teasing, and laughing, I had unknowingly spoke something that did not settle. I had truly meant for it to be a joke, but instead, my words had caused her hurt. She, being the woman she is, had tried to forget and pray through it through out the night. She knows me. She knows I don't intentionally hurt people and she knows our relationship is built with life and our Father in the middle. So for her to feel unsettled that long caused her to dial me this morning and tearfully share her heart with me.
My words had hurt. She wanted to be sure there wasn't a 'root' as we call them. You know, when someone says they are joking, but actually is a sneaky way of telling the truth about how you really feel to someone you don't have the guts to say to their face.
I have to be honest. At first, I was a little upset. Why would she ever think I would ever say something to hurt her? Couldn't she tell it was a joke? Then the Holy Spirit kicked me in the butt and I stopped thinking and started listening. As soon as I put my own dumb self aside, I could 'hear' her. My words were stupid. I shouldn't have said them. I got caught up in the moment and wanted to be funny. In the process, I had fired little arrows.
I'm sharing this because this is a part of life and its something we all do so easily.
I also want to share this as how to 'walk' with friends and the correct way to walk in life with conflict. She put herself on the line and called me the second she woke this morning so it would not linger. She didn't call another friend to 'talk' through it and smear my character and name through the mud. She talked it through with her Father first. Then she called me right away, before the day got away and bitterness started to settle in with her. This is one of things I admire most about her and our friendship. We go to the source first. I never have to worry about gossip or slander. I know what is spoken between us always stays with us.
This is how friendship should be with each other. If you have a problem or thought of a problem, even a doubt, talk to your Father first. He will tell you if its you or something you need to discuss with that person. Please stop 'asking prayer' with a friend as a way to gossip in Christianese. That does not spark growth for anyone. It is a disease that spreads quickly and effectively like wild fire in the Christian Community, especially amongst women.
This leads me to ask this question.
Why do we as women do this to each other? As if life isn't hard enough with kids, husbands, work, family, ect. We need community. Safe community. We need life. We need safety with each other. Stop hopping around between friends for the one to give you the advice you 'want to hear' and start seeking wise and safe council.
Prov.11:14 (msg) 'Without good direction, people lose their way; the more wise counsel you follow, the better your chances.' 12. 'Mean-spirited slander is heartless; quiet discretion accompanies good sense.'
Sadly, I myself have been involved far too many times with people that do not spark life and growth and I am far from being perfect on this matter. Gossip in any form is fun for a while, and it can make you feel better about yourself and that your life is somehow better than that poor unfortunate soul. Trust me when I say this. Its not worth it.
Life is too short. Stay rooted in your Father and speak life to one another. We are all fighting hard battles everyday. We need all the help we can get. We are on the same team. Lets act like it and start focusing on the things the devil doesn't want us to see.
Sounds way more fun to me.
I apologized right away and asked forgiveness for my dumb words. She was quick to forgive and always is because we know each other and where our identity lies. Now we move on. We don't linger in 'the yucky place'.
We accept forgiveness, we learn from our mistakes, and we enjoy the rest of our day.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Strong
Eph. 6:10 'And that about wraps it up, God is strong and He wants You strong.'(msg)
This is where He had me camp out this morning. Another simple, yet very powerful statement from our Father. He is strong and wants us strong. He doesn't want us weak, guilty, judging, condemned. Just strong in HIM!
I began thinking and praying through this. God, if your desire for me is strength, You are going to take me through situations in life to strengthen me. You don't get strong by 'coasting' through life. You get strong by eating good food, fighting, praying, maybe being in unknown situations that cause us to rely on no one but our Father. This idea I used to have that when something was hard must mean that I was doing something wrong, does not ad up.
Granted, there will be times when we know we are disobeying, like Jonah, and He will allow things to pan out accordingly.
I want to be very careful and clear. I am not in any way saying that God causes 'bad things to happen to us'. That is not His character. I believe He ultimately wants best for us and wants us to grow. He can, however, and does, take things the devil was hoping to destroy us with and redeem them for His glory. He's just that awesome :)
I am thinking about times when a situation has come around to me where I had the choice to say 'yes' or 'no'. Do I say yes even though its an unknown and very uncomfortable? Or do I say 'no' because I am comfortable and I am 'good' where I'm at.
Conflict is a big spiritual muscle I had to learn. I used to run, never looking back, from conflict. I would do everything in my power to avoid it at all costs. That was not right. I had not allowed God to 'grow' that in me. Over time, I began to realize that there was a lot of conflict starting to happen in my life right about the time I was ready to deal with some things from my past. Instead of running, some friends kindly pointed out that this was a good thing to learn how to do with grace and God's help. It was not comfortable, but it was so necessary. I have come to be 'o.k.' with God's permission, to stand up for what is right and true, establish boundaries if needed, and not run in the other direction. Conflict is going to happen! That is one element of this life we can count on, whether in marriage, family, or friends. Growing that muscle to handle it with God's integrity is a massive life lesson you and I will use time and again.
So, God is strong, and He wants you strong. He is in your corner! He is fighting for your strength in this crazy battle called life. Eph. 6: 12-'This is no afternoon athletic contest that we'll walk away from and forget about in a couple of hours. This is for keeps, a life-or-death fight to the finish against the devil and all his angels'.(msg)
It does God no good to sit there day after day and 'raz' us for what we have done wrong or haven't done. Not saying He will not convict us of sin in our lives, but once you have asked forgiveness, its over! He already took care of it years ago! You are glorifying no one by beating yourself up and feeling guilty for something He already took to the cross. He wants you strong, not guilty and wallowing in self pity over how bad of a person you are. Get up! Make it right with your Father and move on. This life is too short to spend a day on something He already took care of for you. Eat your spiritual food, be intimate with your Father, and get back in there and fight! Remember, He wins.
This is where He had me camp out this morning. Another simple, yet very powerful statement from our Father. He is strong and wants us strong. He doesn't want us weak, guilty, judging, condemned. Just strong in HIM!
I began thinking and praying through this. God, if your desire for me is strength, You are going to take me through situations in life to strengthen me. You don't get strong by 'coasting' through life. You get strong by eating good food, fighting, praying, maybe being in unknown situations that cause us to rely on no one but our Father. This idea I used to have that when something was hard must mean that I was doing something wrong, does not ad up.
Granted, there will be times when we know we are disobeying, like Jonah, and He will allow things to pan out accordingly.
I want to be very careful and clear. I am not in any way saying that God causes 'bad things to happen to us'. That is not His character. I believe He ultimately wants best for us and wants us to grow. He can, however, and does, take things the devil was hoping to destroy us with and redeem them for His glory. He's just that awesome :)
I am thinking about times when a situation has come around to me where I had the choice to say 'yes' or 'no'. Do I say yes even though its an unknown and very uncomfortable? Or do I say 'no' because I am comfortable and I am 'good' where I'm at.
Conflict is a big spiritual muscle I had to learn. I used to run, never looking back, from conflict. I would do everything in my power to avoid it at all costs. That was not right. I had not allowed God to 'grow' that in me. Over time, I began to realize that there was a lot of conflict starting to happen in my life right about the time I was ready to deal with some things from my past. Instead of running, some friends kindly pointed out that this was a good thing to learn how to do with grace and God's help. It was not comfortable, but it was so necessary. I have come to be 'o.k.' with God's permission, to stand up for what is right and true, establish boundaries if needed, and not run in the other direction. Conflict is going to happen! That is one element of this life we can count on, whether in marriage, family, or friends. Growing that muscle to handle it with God's integrity is a massive life lesson you and I will use time and again.
So, God is strong, and He wants you strong. He is in your corner! He is fighting for your strength in this crazy battle called life. Eph. 6: 12-'This is no afternoon athletic contest that we'll walk away from and forget about in a couple of hours. This is for keeps, a life-or-death fight to the finish against the devil and all his angels'.(msg)
It does God no good to sit there day after day and 'raz' us for what we have done wrong or haven't done. Not saying He will not convict us of sin in our lives, but once you have asked forgiveness, its over! He already took care of it years ago! You are glorifying no one by beating yourself up and feeling guilty for something He already took to the cross. He wants you strong, not guilty and wallowing in self pity over how bad of a person you are. Get up! Make it right with your Father and move on. This life is too short to spend a day on something He already took care of for you. Eat your spiritual food, be intimate with your Father, and get back in there and fight! Remember, He wins.
Monday, March 5, 2012
Perspective...
I was having quiet time the other day and God hit me with a really good nugget.
He had me read through Mark 7 and 8. I read through many miracles and how the disciples just 'couldn't' grasp what was going on. Even after 2 miracles of bread and fish for 5,000 then 4,000 people, they were arguing that they hadn't brought enough food for themselves. I had to imagine how maddening this must have been for Jesus. 'Really guys? You still don't understand who I am and what I am capable of?' There are 13 of us and I just fed 9,000!
I then came to Mark 8:33. Jesus was starting to talk about what must happen to Him soon, suffering, rejection, killed and 3 days later He would rise again. 8:31-32. As he talked about this, Peter took Him aside and began to reprimand Him. (v32)
'Jesus turned around and looked at his disciples, then reprimanded Peter. "Get away from me, Satan!" He said. "you are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God's".
I stopped here and started realizing how important this truth must be. If Jesus told Peter to 'get away from me satan', how important for us is it to have kingdom perspective? How many times have I seen God work, opening doors, miracles, and still find myself worrying or just not trusting because I have let my mind go from Kingdom, to earthly perspective?
This is what I journaled that morning...
'Daughter, this is a simple, yet powerful truth you need to grasp and hold on to..In this life, you must have My perspective, not earthly or self. Pray for this daily, for your family and for others. Always stop and ask Me if you are seeing things from my view, or yours. Remember what I am capable of. Never forget. I am God! I can do anything! Don't you see? Nothing and no one is in my way. I am God, your Father, your Daddy, your best friend, your lover, your protector. Do not doubt me. Listen carefully for my voice. I alone am worthy. Do not be afraid. Do not loose hope. Life gets hard, but you are my daughter. Rachelle, you are a daughter of the King! Do not ever forget that. You have the freedom to carry out kingdom orders from Me! You have an 'in' with Me! I am never too busy for you. I know everything. Stay in Me-Root yourself in only Me. Do not look to the right or to the left, keep your eyes on Me!'
Everyday since, I have been asking God to constantly renew my mind. Every time I come to a situation and my mind starts going down 'that road', I stop and ask to see things from His perspective. Big picture. What does this look like on Your timeline, not mine? I can honestly say, it is very encouraging. We have problems and this life is so hard, but He already knew this very minute the problems we would be having. He already knew and made a way for that problem. It might not be our solution, but He does know best.
I love that He is never afraid of our problems. So many times I would think, no God, I got this, this is too ugly and messy,
You don't want to know what I'm really thinking right now.
So He smiles and says, 'Try Me'.
He already knew! Some of my favorite times with Him are me whining at Him and He just sits and listens until I'm done. Then He scoops me up, smiles, and says, 'My Turn?'.
His peace washes over me and I am reminded of His undying, crazy, love for ME. He is always ready and excited to hear how we 'really feel'. That is true relationship. Its ugly, imperfect, unpredictable, and so worth it. If we came to Him with perfect problems and things we already 'took care of', where would His miracles be in our life?
I challenge everyone to go to their Dad with something real. Trust me, He can take it. In fact, He wants to take it. See what happens and ask Him for His 'Big Picture'.
He had me read through Mark 7 and 8. I read through many miracles and how the disciples just 'couldn't' grasp what was going on. Even after 2 miracles of bread and fish for 5,000 then 4,000 people, they were arguing that they hadn't brought enough food for themselves. I had to imagine how maddening this must have been for Jesus. 'Really guys? You still don't understand who I am and what I am capable of?' There are 13 of us and I just fed 9,000!
I then came to Mark 8:33. Jesus was starting to talk about what must happen to Him soon, suffering, rejection, killed and 3 days later He would rise again. 8:31-32. As he talked about this, Peter took Him aside and began to reprimand Him. (v32)
'Jesus turned around and looked at his disciples, then reprimanded Peter. "Get away from me, Satan!" He said. "you are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God's".
I stopped here and started realizing how important this truth must be. If Jesus told Peter to 'get away from me satan', how important for us is it to have kingdom perspective? How many times have I seen God work, opening doors, miracles, and still find myself worrying or just not trusting because I have let my mind go from Kingdom, to earthly perspective?
This is what I journaled that morning...
'Daughter, this is a simple, yet powerful truth you need to grasp and hold on to..In this life, you must have My perspective, not earthly or self. Pray for this daily, for your family and for others. Always stop and ask Me if you are seeing things from my view, or yours. Remember what I am capable of. Never forget. I am God! I can do anything! Don't you see? Nothing and no one is in my way. I am God, your Father, your Daddy, your best friend, your lover, your protector. Do not doubt me. Listen carefully for my voice. I alone am worthy. Do not be afraid. Do not loose hope. Life gets hard, but you are my daughter. Rachelle, you are a daughter of the King! Do not ever forget that. You have the freedom to carry out kingdom orders from Me! You have an 'in' with Me! I am never too busy for you. I know everything. Stay in Me-Root yourself in only Me. Do not look to the right or to the left, keep your eyes on Me!'
Everyday since, I have been asking God to constantly renew my mind. Every time I come to a situation and my mind starts going down 'that road', I stop and ask to see things from His perspective. Big picture. What does this look like on Your timeline, not mine? I can honestly say, it is very encouraging. We have problems and this life is so hard, but He already knew this very minute the problems we would be having. He already knew and made a way for that problem. It might not be our solution, but He does know best.
I love that He is never afraid of our problems. So many times I would think, no God, I got this, this is too ugly and messy,
You don't want to know what I'm really thinking right now.
So He smiles and says, 'Try Me'.
He already knew! Some of my favorite times with Him are me whining at Him and He just sits and listens until I'm done. Then He scoops me up, smiles, and says, 'My Turn?'.
His peace washes over me and I am reminded of His undying, crazy, love for ME. He is always ready and excited to hear how we 'really feel'. That is true relationship. Its ugly, imperfect, unpredictable, and so worth it. If we came to Him with perfect problems and things we already 'took care of', where would His miracles be in our life?
I challenge everyone to go to their Dad with something real. Trust me, He can take it. In fact, He wants to take it. See what happens and ask Him for His 'Big Picture'.
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